Begin By Listening, Savor the Context and the Intent, Let the Truth in the Statements Distill and Ferment. Then Respond. Often the Problem in Conversation are the Perceived Words Never Actually Spoken

When you do speak, speak so the ones around want to listen. And then others will want to speak.

Ask the Holy Spirit to improve your SPEAKING SKILLS.

Healthy communication relates to a skill that can be learned.

First we must learn to work with our emotions instead of being worked by them.

You may explain your emotions instead of expressing them.

Look for solutions instead of arguments. This is an ART of communication and it’s called a LOVE LANGUAGE.

Without healthy communication there will be no trust, without trust you will have absolutely no respect, and without respect there will be no showcase of love.

Read 1 Corinthians 13:1-13.

“If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing.

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when completeness comes, what is in part disappears. When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me. For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.

And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.”

When you do communicate SKILLFULLY it can work miracles.

Your mental health matters.

Relationships will never grow without a proper amount of communication. Communication is the KEY to success.